Let’s talk about what is better than falling in love?! Well, falling in love with your best friend is far better than falling in love with a random person. A relationship between two best friends will be the most fulfilling relationship of all time.
Having said that, let it also be known that suddenly trying to be in a relationship with your best friend is not the wisest idea either. The point is, being best friends with the person you are in love with is a beautiful thing.
If you relate to the following, chances are that you are dating your best friend:
1. Comfort level
There is nothing that makes you feel uncomfortable around them. You are unapologetically yourself and you never feel awkward. You are comfortably weird.
2. You can rant
You know that even when you have a world of things to rant about, they will listen to you no matter what and you know that they will never get tired of you.
3. They are always there
They have seen you at your worst and stood by you, came what did. You are always secure that they would not leave.
4. They let you let loose and let your stresses go
They make you feel like everything is and will be okay and give you the space to stop worrying about everything and let your hair down.
5. You miss them all the time
Does not matter if you saw them just a couple of hours ago, you always miss them. You would like it best if you could do everything with them. Their presence calms you and makes you feel at home.
6. You don’t need to talk to communicate
Communicating is a piece of cake. You do not need to use words to tell each other what you are feeling or what is happening. You could look at them a certain way or they could smile a certain way and both of you would know what the other one is thinking. It does not take much.
7. You cannot hide things or keep secrets
You can try but you cannot keep secrets from each other at any cost. One will just know if the other one is hiding anything and they will end up spilling. It is actually better for the person with the secret, given that they are telling their best friend and the person they are in love with.
8. A glimpse makes your day
Seeing them, even if it is for a couple of minutes, is worth it. You will take every detour and make all the time you can if it means that you get to see them at least once a day, no matter how short the meeting might be.
9. You don’t mind doing anything with them
When you meet, you do not necessarily have to do things and go out or stuff like that. You guys could just sit by the window and chill, talk, laugh or just be quiet and it would still be the best time ever.
10. You know what the other likes
Both of you know each other down to the bone so there is no defeating either of you when it comes to likes and dislikes. All of this makes it easier to make actually enjoyable surprises happen.
11. There is endless trust
Trust is not even a question between you two. It might have been, had it been a stereotypical, regular relationship but for you guys, no. You both are so consumed with each other that you barely have time to question something as basic as trust.
Given the amount of trust that the two of you share, it is only normal that you guys are spontaneous. You guys do not need plans to do fun things; all you need is to be together. Your personalities complement each other and you guys are never bored, even for a second.
13. No pressure
You guys no pressure to put in effort into how you look every time you meet. Your relationship is way past that. This is also a reason you have so much fun together. You put in the effort when you have something special planned with them, and that keeps the novelty alive.
14. Inside jokes and rituals
You have a ton of inside jokes that make no sense to other people and there are a few things that you always do together. It could be anything- going to a particular ice cream place, watching a certain movie and so on.
15. You smile when they do
This talks for itself. You put their happiness before yours.
16. They are yours and they make everything okay
You know that you belong together, and they make even the toughest of days feel like a cakewalk.