It’s not always that we find the love of our life – someone who will be supporting us in every step that we take. But if we do find someone like that due to some special circumstance, chances are, we don’t appreciate them as much as we should. We fail to see her as a special person and start taking her for granted. Once you do that, can you blame them anymore for leaving? No, you can’t – it’s time to be accountable for your actions. She had tried to be with you, but you had let her go. And now, you regret losing the woman who had waited all this while so that you can get it together.
You pushed her over the edge
She has been kind and wonderful. She knows who we are, but she believes that we can change. Improvement or working on oneself is time-consuming and she is willing to wait for it to happen. But for how long? If you don’t work on yourself ever, how will you bring about any changes within you? She has given you a lot of chances and you have not used them to bring about a positive change. She did her best and stayed with you when you were going through the darkest times of your life, she trusted you and remained optimistic that when you come out of it, you will be a changed person.
You broke her heart – you climbed up the pit same as before. You have taken her for granted, you have pushed her limits, and now she can’t tolerate it anymore. It’s only in the movies that women wait forever for their love. In real life, they would love to see some changes happening in you. Relationships take work from both sides – it cannot be all work from her end. It should also be a source of comfort for her. You have made it too hard for her and now she wants to move away from you.
She will be valued
This kind of woman knows what she’s worth. She gives time and energy in places where she knows a positive change would take place. She believed that you were someone like that. Imagine how it broke her heart when she gave all of her support to you and you just let it go to waste. She knows that she needs to be treated better, she deserves the best. She won’t get it when she’s with you.
When you were in your worst state – she put up with you. Respecting you, and seeing you through your darkest times – these are some difficult things that she had continued to do. And all you did was push her away. Now she will prioritize herself – she will look for someone who would actually value her for who she is. She deserves all the respect in the world, and now you have come to realize it.
Doubts and endless regret
And what would you do now? You can find someone too – you deserve love as much as she does. But can you find the same depth that your former lover offered? You will always be in doubt – the kind of patience and faith that your former lover displayed was amazing. It’s not something you find every day. And now, you can understand that you took it all for granted. Unconditional love is difficult to find and you just let it walk out of your front door. It’s a terrible feeling – a regret that would consume you.
What’s done is done, however. Move on, learn from your mistakes, and when your next date shows up – try to grow and put effort to build yourself up. Get your things together – become complete. Only then can you actually appreciate being in a relationship with a person who truly loves you?