All the pop culture in society today teaches us that we are all destined to find that one other person who is just right for us in every incarnation that we live through. But fate is more complicated than that. Think about it. Maybe, in certain lives, you weren’t destined to find someone. It is a learning process that fate wants us to undergo. We must learn to be happy with ourselves and find independence. This is when you’ll get to learn who you really are without anyone else’s interference.
Here are some of the indicators you should watch out for which will prove that in this life, you are destined to be alone.
1. Your Alone Time Is Necessary
More often than not, you’ll find yourself craving solitude and you’ll take every chance that you can to explore the world by yourself. This by itself isn’t enough to prove your destiny but if you recognize the other indicators as well, you’ll know the direction in which you are headed.
2. No One Seems To Be Good Enough
Even though you’ve met a lot of good people, there seems to be something wrong with each one of them. This might mean that you will stay single in this life. You could always break out of this but think about whether you even want to.
3. Your Idea Of Love Is Twisted
Falling in love isn’t going to make your life magically perfect. It is difficult and messy and as soon as you realize this, you always end up running away.
4. Cycles Of Toxicity
Every person you date turns out to full of negativity and extremely toxic. Consciously or unconsciously, you gravitate towards these people because you don’t actually want to succeed.
5. Your Selfishness Gets In The Way
Relationships are about compromise and being as selfish as you are, you just can’t deal with that. You just end up causing that person more pain than they deserve. There’s no point in trying if you’re not willing to make even the smallest of sacrifices for them.
6. There’s No Changing You
You think you’re fine just the way you are but you’re not. When you are already set in your habits, you most likely won’t succeed in finding someone because you’re not willing to make any changes to let them into your life.
7. Looking For Answers
When you aren’t quite sure who you really are, you might not be prepared to find the right person. Take the time to learn more about yourself and your purpose. That might be the intention of this incarnation.
8. Settling Isn’t For You
You want to be a free bird going where you want to when you want to. Settling down with another person doesn’t seem appealing to you at all. You may grow out of this feeling but till you can’t shake it off, you’ll have to wander alone.
9. Your Goals Mean Everything To You
While fulfilling your ambition feels like the be all and end all of your existence, it may mean that you have a higher purpose. There’s more to your life than just the need to find someone.