It has been said many times and I will say it one more time- men are difficult to read, which is why we never know what is going on with them. You might be spending all your time with him but he just does not seem to come clean with his feelings. Granted some guys are good with their feelings and tell you what they actually feel but that is a minority and we would really like to know more.
So, here is an article that is written just for you, if you are confused about his feelings for you. The following is a list of signs that he loves you, even if he does not say it clearly.
1. Remembers what you say
He listens when you talk and always remembers what you say because he pays complete attention to you when you do speak. He is always interested in knowing more about you and he wants to know everything- your family, childhood, even how your day went and the best part- he always remembers it all.
2. Is chivalrous
When he is in love with you, he will always be chivalrous. He respects you a lot, which is why he really cares about what you think of him. If he did not love you, he would not find the respect in him to care about what you thought of him at all. It is the little things. Watch out if he is holding the door for you and pulling the chair out for you.
3. He is protective and takes care of you
He is always going out of his way and doing small things to make your day better to the best of his abilities. Throughout the day he checks up on you, he gets you stuff you need even before you can say anything. He also finds making sure that you are always safe to be one of his priorities.
4. You are part of his plan
Whenever he talks of the future and about his life, his dreams and settling down, you are the most essential part of it all. He makes his future plans for keeping you in the center.
5. He holds your hand and keeps you close
He always holds your hand when you are out together or walking. This is a subconscious thing all guys do to show that they will always be by your side whenever you need him. Even when you are talking in a group, he stands close to you to show everyone that you are his and everyone else should lay off.
6. He takes your opinion
He puts great importance on everything you have to say. Your opinion is important for him before doing anything and he does not do it just for the heck of it and he actually takes everything you say very seriously and bases most of his decisions on what you had to say.
7. He says “we”
He does not talk in singular units like, “you” or “I”, those days are long gone for him so he always uses the term “we”. The best part of it is that he does not even know that he is doing that.
8. He wants to help
Whenever you are going through tough times or are swamped with work, he is always the first person to extend his hand for help. He always makes sure that you are not stressed or overworked. He looks out for you in the smallest ways possible and he does not shy away from offering to help even when he busy with everything that he has to do.
When you fight, you are not the only one who wants to make up. He too wants to make up as soon as possible and will do whatever it takes to make up. He even realizes when he is at fault and apologizes because his ego is not as important to him as you are.
10. He keeps you updated
He always keeps you informed about what he is doing and where he is, even though he can do whatever he wants to because he genuinely cares about you and wants to make sure that you are not worried.
11. You are the last person
You are the last and first person he talks to before and after he falls asleep. He does this because you are the only person he thinks of first and last thing in his day.
12. He just wants to see you happy
He does not care what it would take and he will go to any lengths to see you smile. Even if it means letting go of his own happiness. He tries his best to get along people close to you because he knows how much it means to you.
13. He cannot stay angry with you
Straight up- he loves you too much to stay mad at you. If he stays mad at you, he knows how much you both would be hurting and therefore it does not take him long to make things okay.
14. He spends a lot of time with you and talks a lot
He spends as much time with you as he possibly can because he loves being with you. Also, he is never quiet. He opens up to you and bares himself, telling you everything about him and all his feelings because you mean a lot to him.
15. He always chooses you and stands up for you
If he is ever asked to choose between you and anything else in the world, he chooses you in a heartbeat and does not need any time to think. Not only that, he always stands up for you and makes sure that you never feel humiliated.
16. He never forgets your important days and gives you all his attention
He never ever forgets your big days or days that are important to you- be it your birthday or appraisal day at work and he is always around to wish you luck and make them special for you. As far as his attention goes, it is always yours, no matter who else is in the room.
17. He is never annoyed
You could be the world’s most annoying person- messing around when he is really focussed or trying to get something done, but he is never annoyed with you.